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chennOufmed Admin
Nombre de messages : 6208 Date d'inscription : 08/01/2007
| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Ven 20 Mar - 3:16 | |
| yes friend, come rain, come sun; women are never happy ! | |
| | | chennOufmed Admin
Nombre de messages : 6208 Date d'inscription : 08/01/2007
| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Mer 25 Mar - 18:29 | |
| One fine day, a bus driver went to the bus garage, started his bus, and drove off along the route. No problems for the first few stops - a few people got on, a few got off, and things went generally well.
At the next stop, however, a big hulk of a guy got on. Six feet eight,built like a wrestler, arms hanging down to the ground. He glared at the driver and said, “Big John doesn't pay!" and sat down at the back.
Did I mention that the driver was five feet three, thin, and basically meek? Well, he was. Naturally, he didn't argue with Big John, but he wasn't happy about it. The next day the same thing happened - Big John got on again, made a show of refusing to pay, and sat down. And the next day, and the next.
This grated on the bus driver, who started losing sleep over the way Big John was taking advantage of him. Finally he could stand it no longer. He signed up for body building courses, karate, judo, and all that good stuff.
By the end of the summer, he had become quite strong; what's more, he felt really good about himself. So on the next Monday, when Big John once again got on the bus and said, " Big John doesn't pay!"
The driver stood up, glared back at the passenger, and screamed, “And why not?"
With a surprised look on his face, Big John replied, " Big John has a bus pass."
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Nombre de messages : 6208 Date d'inscription : 08/01/2007
| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Ven 24 Avr - 18:10 | |
| A little boy went into a drug store, reached for a soda carton and pulled it over to the telephone. He climbed onto the carton so that he could reach the buttons on the phone and proceeded to punch in seven digits.
The store-owner observed and listened to the conversation:
The boy asked, "Lady, Can you give me the job of cutting your lawn? The woman replied, "I already have someone to cut my lawn." "Lady, I will cut your lawn for half the price of the person who cuts your lawn now." replied boy.
The woman responded that she was very satisfied with the person who was presently cutting her lawn. The little boy found more perseverance and offered, "Lady, I'll even sweep your curb and your sidewalk, so on S! Sunday you will have the prettiest lawn in all of North Palm beach, Florida."
Again the woman answered in the negative.
With a smile on his face, the little boy replaced the receiver. The store-owner, who was listening to all this, walked over to the boy and said, "Son... I like your attitude; I like that positive spirit and would like to offer you a job."
The little boy replied, "No thanks, I was just checking my performance and the job I already have.I am the one who is working for that lady" | |
| | | chennOufmed Admin
Nombre de messages : 6208 Date d'inscription : 08/01/2007
| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Mar 5 Mai - 18:53 | |
| Crashing Cans
A wise old gentleman retired and purchased a modest home near a junior high school. He spent the first few weeks of his retirement in peace and contentment. Then a new school year began.
The very next afternoon three young boys, full of youthful, after-school enthusiasm, came down his street, beating merrily on every trash can they encountered. The crashing percussion continued day after day, until finally the wise old man decided it was time to take some action.
The following afternoon, he walked out to meet the young percussionists as they banged their way down the street. Stopping them, he said, "You kids are a lot of fun. I like to see you express your exuberance like that. Used to do the same thing when I was your age. Will you do me a favor? I'll give you each a dollar if you'll promise to come around every day and do your thing."
The kids were elated and continued to do a bang-up job on the trash cans.
After a few days, the old-timer greeted the kids again, but this time he had a sad smile on his face. "This recession is really putting a big dent in my income," he told them. "From now on, I'll only be able to pay you 50 cents to beat on the cans."
The noisemakers were obviously displeased, but they did accept his offer and continued their afternoon ruckus.
A few days later, the wily retiree approached them again as they drummed their way down the street. "Look," he said, "I haven't received my Social Security check yet, so I'm not going to be able to give you more than 25 cents. Will that be okay?"
"A lousy quarter?" the drum leader exclaimed. "If you think we're going to waste our time, beating these cans around for a quarter, you're nuts! No way, mister. We quit!" And the old man enjoyed peace and serenity for the rest of his days. | |
| | | hala
Nombre de messages : 167 Date d'inscription : 20/12/2007
| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Dim 31 Mai - 17:50 | |
| The Butterfly
A man found a cocoon of a butterfly One day a small opening appeared He sat and watched the butterfly for several hours It struggled to force its body through that little hole Then it seemed to stop making any progress It appeared as if it had gotten as far as it could And it could go no farther.
So the man decided to help the butterfly He took a pair of scissors and snipped off The remaining bit of the cocoon.
The butterfly then emerged easily, BUT, It had a swollen body and small, shrivelled wings He continued to watch the butterfly He expected that, at any moment, the wings would enlarge And the body would contract Neither happened! In fact, the butterfly spent the rest of its life crawling Around with a swollen body and shrivelled wings. It was never able to fly.
The man acted with well-intentioned kindness But he didn't understand the consequences. The restricting cocoon and the struggle required to get Through the tiny opening, were nature's way of forcing fluid From the body of the butterfly once it achieved it's freedom From the cocoon.
Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our life. If nature allowed us to go through life without any Obstacles, it would cripple us. We would not be as strong as we could have been And we could never fly Have a great day, great life, and struggle a little. Then fly! | |
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Nombre de messages : 6208 Date d'inscription : 08/01/2007
| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Dim 24 Jan - 8:21 | |
| really great & deeply inspirational story dear hala. thanks a lot for your beautiful choice. | |
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Nombre de messages : 6208 Date d'inscription : 08/01/2007
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Nombre de messages : 6208 Date d'inscription : 08/01/2007
| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Mer 31 Mar - 18:55 | |
| the story of the pencil
paulo coelho
A boy was watching his grandmother write a letter , at one point he asked:
'Are you writing a story about what we've done or is it a story about me?'
His grandmother stopped writing her letter and said to her grandson: 'I am writing about you actually, but more important than the words is the pencil am using. I hope you'll be like this pencil when you grow up'. Intrigued, the boy looked at the pencil . It did not seem very special. 'But its just like any other pencil that I've ever seen!'
That depends on how you look at things. It has five qualities which , if you manage to hang on to them , will make you a person who is always at peace with the world.
'First quality: You are capable of great things,but you must never forget that there's a hand guiding your steps. We call that hand 'GOD' and he always guides us according to his will.
Second Quality: Now and then, i've to stop writing and use a sharpener. That makes the pencil suffer a little but afterwards , he's much sharper. So you too, must learn to bear certain pains and sorrows, because they'll make you a better person.
Third Quality: The pencil always allows us to use an eraser to rub out any mistakes. This means that correcting something we did, is not necessarily a bad thing; It helps to keep us on the road to justice.
Fourth quality: What really matters for the pencil is not its wooden exterior but its graphite inside. So always pay attention to what is happening inside you.
Finally, the pencils fifth quality: It always leave a mark. In just the same way, you should know that every thing you do in life will leave a mark, so try to be conscious of that in your every action.
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| | | chennOufmed Admin
Nombre de messages : 6208 Date d'inscription : 08/01/2007
| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Lun 5 Avr - 19:12 | |
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How to kill your mother in law
A long time ago in China , a girl named Li-Li got married & went to live with her husband and mother-in-law. In a very short time, Li-Li found that she couldn't get along with her mother-in-law at all.
Their personalities were very different, and Li-Li was angered by many of her mother-in-law' s habits. In addition, she criticized Li-Li constantly. Days passed, and weeks passed. Li-Li and her mother-in-law never stopped arguing and fighting. But what made the situation even worse was that, according to ancient Chinese tradition, Li-Li had to bow to her mother-in-law and obey her every wish. All the anger and unhappiness in the house was causing Li-Li's poor husband D great distress. Finally, Li-Li could not stand her mother-in-! law's bad temper and dictatorship any longer, and she decided to do something about it! Li-Li went to see her father's good friend, Mr. Huang, who sold herbs. She told him the situation and asked if he would give her some poison so that she could solve the problem once and for all. Mr. Huang thought for awhile, and finally said, "Li-Li, I will help you solve your problem, but you must listen to me and obey what I tell you." Li-Li said, "Yes, Mr. Huang, I will do whatever you tell me to do."Mr. Huang went into the back room, and returned in a few minutes with a package of herbs. He told Li-Li, "You can't use a quick-acting poison to get rid of your mother-in-law, because that would cause people to become suspicious Therefore, I have given you a number of herbs that will slowly build up poison in her body. Every other day prepare some delicious meal and put a little of these herbs in her serving.
Now, in order to make sure that nobody suspect you, when she dies, you must be very careful to act very friendly towards her. "Don't argue with her, obey her every wish, and treat her like a queen." Li-Li was so happy. She thanked Mr. Huang and hurried home to start her plot of murdering her mother-in-law. Weeks went by, and months went by, and every other day, Li-Li served the specially treated food to her mother-in-law. She remembered what Mr. Huang had said about avoiding suspicion, so she controlled her temper!r, obeyed her mother-in-law, and treated her like her own mother. After six months had passed, the whole household had changed. Li-Li had practiced controlling her temper so much that she found that she almost never got mad or upset. She hadn't had an argument with her mother-in-law in six months because she now seemed much kinder and easier to get along with. The mother-in-law' s attitude toward Li-Li changed, and she began to love Li-Li like her own daughter. She kept telling friends and relatives that Li-Li was the best daughter-in- law one could ever find. Li-Li and her mother-in-law were now treating each other like a real mother and daughter. Li-Li's husband was very happy to see what was happening. One day, Li-Li came to see Mr. Huang and asked for his help again She said, "Dear Mr. Huang, please help me to keep the poison from killing my mother-in-law. She's changed into such a nice woman, and I love her like my own mother. I do not want her to die because of the poison I gave her." Mr. Huang smiled and nodded his head. "Li-Li, there's nothing to worry about. I never gave you any poison. The herbs I gave you were vitamins to improve her health. The only poison was in your mind and your attitude toward her, but that has been all washed away by the love which you gave to her." HAVE YOU REALIZED that how you treat others is exactly how they will treat you? There is a wise Chinese saying: "The person who loves others will also be loved in return." God might be trying to work in another person's life through you. Send this to your friends and spread the POWER OF LOVE.
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| | | Jayshree poétesse
Nombre de messages : 1162 Localisation : Ahmedabad Emploi : Prof Date d'inscription : 10/07/2009
| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Mar 6 Avr - 3:25 | |
| Very nice story ami Chennoufmed... Thank you very much for publishing it here... | |
| | | chennOufmed Admin
Nombre de messages : 6208 Localisation : Meknes/MOrOccO Emploi : PrOf Loisirs : reading... Date d'inscription : 08/01/2007
| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Ven 9 Avr - 19:12 | |
| you are welcome dear jayshree.i am happy you liked it. | |
| | | chennOufmed Admin
Nombre de messages : 6208 Localisation : Meknes/MOrOccO Emploi : PrOf Loisirs : reading... Date d'inscription : 08/01/2007
| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Ven 9 Avr - 19:13 | |
| Here is how two people looking at the same thing can see it VERY differently.
A blind boy sat on the steps of a building with a hat by his feet..
He held up a sign which said: ‘I am blind please help.’ There were only a few coins in the hat. A man was walking by. He took a few coins from his pocket and dropped them into the hat. He then took the sign, turned it around, and wrote some words. He put the sign back so that everyone who walked by would see the new words. Soon the hat began to fill up. A lot more people were giving money to the blind boy. That afternoon the man who had changed the sign came to see how things were. The boy recognized his footsteps and asked, ‘were you the one who changed my sign this morning? What did you write?’ The man said, ‘I only wrote the truth. I said what you said but in a different way.
What he had written was: ‘Today is a beautiful day and I cannot see it.’ | |
| | | chennOufmed Admin
Nombre de messages : 6208 Localisation : Meknes/MOrOccO Emploi : PrOf Loisirs : reading... Date d'inscription : 08/01/2007
| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Sam 10 Avr - 17:59 | |
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Nombre de messages : 6208 Localisation : Meknes/MOrOccO Emploi : PrOf Loisirs : reading... Date d'inscription : 08/01/2007
| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Jeu 22 Avr - 16:56 | |
| the pretty lady Once upon a time a big monk and a little monk were traveling together. They came to the bank of a river and found the bridge was damaged. They had to wade across the river. There was a pretty lady who was stuck at the damaged bridge and couldn’t cross the river. The big monk offered to carry her across the river on his back. The lady accepted. The little monk was shocked by the move of the big monk. ‘How can big brother carry a lady when we are supposed to avoid all intimacy with females?’ thought the little monk. But he kept quiet. The big monk carried the lady across the river and the small monk followed unhappily. When they crossed the river, the big monk let the lady down and they parted ways with her.
All along the way for several miles, the little monk was very unhappy with the act of the big monk. He was making up all kinds of acussations about big monk in his head. This got him madder and madder. But he still kept quiet. And the big monk had no inclination to explain his situation. Finally, at a rest point many hours later, the little monk could not stand it any further, he burst out angrily at the big monk. ‘How can you claim yourself a devout monk, when you seize the first opportunity to touch a female, especially when she is very pretty? All your teachings to me make you a big hypocrite The big monk looked surprised and said, ‘I had put down the pretty lady at the river bank many hours ago, how come you are still carrying her along?’ | |
| | | chennOufmed Admin
Nombre de messages : 6208 Localisation : Meknes/MOrOccO Emploi : PrOf Loisirs : reading... Date d'inscription : 08/01/2007
| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Dim 2 Mai - 19:45 | |
| The Donkey and the Dog
There was once a washer man who had a donkey and a dog. One night when the whole world was sleeping, a thief broke into the house, the washer man was fast asleep too but the donkey and the dog were awake. The dog decided not to bark since the master did not take good care of him and wanted to teach him a lesson.
The donkey got worried and said to the dog that if he doesn’t bark, the donkey will have to do something himself. The dog did not change his mind and the donkey started braying loudly. Hearing the donkey bray, the thief ran away, the master woke up and started beating the donkey for braying in the middle of the night for no reason. Moral of the story “One must not engage in duties other than his own” | |
| | | chennOufmed Admin
Nombre de messages : 6208 Localisation : Meknes/MOrOccO Emploi : PrOf Loisirs : reading... Date d'inscription : 08/01/2007
| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Sam 8 Mai - 17:44 | |
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Ever heard the story of the giant ship engine that failed? The ship’s owners tried one expert after another, but none of them could figure but how to fix the engine. Then they brought in an old man who had been fixing ships since he was a youngster. He carried a large bag of tools with him, and when he arrived, he immediately went to work. He inspected the engine very carefully, top to bottom. Two of the ship’s owners were there, watching this man, hoping he would know what to do. After looking things over, the old man reached into his bag and pulled out a small hammer. He gently tapped something. Instantly, the engine lurched into life. He carefully put his hammer away. The engine was fixed! A week later, the owners received a bill from the old man for ten thousand dollars. ”What?!” the owners exclaimed. “He hardly did anything!” So they wrote the old man a note saying, “Please send us an itemized bill.”
The man sent a bill that read:
Tapping with a hammer …….. $ 2.00
Knowing where to tap ………… $ 9998.00
Effort is important, but knowing where to make an effort in your life makes all the difference.
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| | | chennOufmed Admin
Nombre de messages : 6208 Localisation : Meknes/MOrOccO Emploi : PrOf Loisirs : reading... Date d'inscription : 08/01/2007
| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Mer 12 Mai - 16:26 | |
| One old man was sitting with his 25 years old son in the train.
Train is about to leave the station. All passengers are settling down their seat. As train started young man was filled with lot of joy and curiosity. He was sitting on the window side. He went out one hand and feeling the passing air. He shouted, "Papa see all trees are going behind". Old man smile and admired son feelings. Beside the young man one couple was sitting and listing all the conversion between father and son. They were little awkward with the attitude of 25 years old man behaving like a small child. Suddenly young man again shouted, "Papa see the pond and animals. Clouds are moving with train". Couple was watching the young man in embarrassingly. Now its start raining and some of water drops touches the young man's hand. He filled with joy and he closed the eyes. He shouted again," Papa it's raining, water is touching me, see papa". Couple couldn't help themselves and ask the old man. "Why don't you visit the Doctor and get treatment for your son." Old man said, " Yes, We are coming from the hospital as Today only my son got his eye sight for first time in his life". Moral: "Don't draw conclusions until you know all the facts". | |
| | | chennOufmed Admin
Nombre de messages : 6208 Localisation : Meknes/MOrOccO Emploi : PrOf Loisirs : reading... Date d'inscription : 08/01/2007
| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Ven 21 Mai - 18:03 | |
| Maybe.
A Chinese story, kind of a Taoistic story about a philosophic farmer.
One day, the farmer's horse ran away, and all the neighbors gathered in the evening and said ‘that’s too bad.’ He said ‘maybe.’ Next day, the horse came back and brought with it seven wild horses. ‘Wow!’ they said, ‘Aren’t you lucky!’ He said ‘maybe.’ The next day, his son grappled with one of these wild horses and tried to break it in, and he got thrown and broke his leg. And all the neighbors said ‘oh, that’s too bad that your son broke his leg.’ He said, ‘maybe.’ The next day, the conscription officers came around, gathering young men for the army, and they rejected his son because he had a broken leg. And the visitors all came around and said ‘Isn’t that great! Your son got out.’ He said, ‘maybe.’ | |
| | | chennOufmed Admin
Nombre de messages : 6208 Localisation : Meknes/MOrOccO Emploi : PrOf Loisirs : reading... Date d'inscription : 08/01/2007
| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Sam 22 Mai - 9:06 | |
| Jack and Max are walking from religious service. Jack wonders whether it would be all right to smoke while praying. Max replies, "Why don't you ask the Priest?" So Jack goes up to the Priest and asks, "Priest, may I smoke while I pray?" But the Priest says, "No, my son, you may not. That's utter disrespect to our religion."
Jack goes back to his friend and tells him what the good Priest told him. Max says, "I'm not surprised. You asked the wrong question. Let me try."And so Max goes up to the Priest and asks, "Priest, may I pray while I smoke?" To which the Priest eagerly replies, "By all means, my son…by all means."
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| | | chennOufmed Admin
Nombre de messages : 6208 Localisation : Meknes/MOrOccO Emploi : PrOf Loisirs : reading... Date d'inscription : 08/01/2007
| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Dim 30 Mai - 17:17 | |
| [size=18]A friend told me about an incident which I wish to share with you as it had a deep impact on my thinking. During last vacation, his few friends came to Delhi . He/his friends rented a taxi for local sight-seeing. The driver was an old Sardar and boys being boys, began cracking Sardarji jokes, just to tease the old man. But to their surprise, he remained unperturbed.At the end of the sight-seeing, they paid the cab hire-charges. The Sardar returned the change, but he gave each one of them one rupee extra and said, ”Sons, since morning you have been telling Sardarji jokes. I listened to them all and let me tell you, some of them were in bad taste. Still, I don’t mind coz I know that you are young blood and are yet to see the world. But I have one request. I am giving you one rupee each. Give it to the first Sardar beggar that you come across in this or any other city.’ My friend continued, ‘ That one rupee coin is still with me. I couldn’t find a single Sardar begging anywhere.’
MORAL: The secret behind their universal success, is their willingness to do any job with utmost dedication and pride. A Sardar will drive a truck or set up a roadside garage or a dhaba, put a fruit juice stall, take up small time carpentry, … but he will never beg on the streets.[/size] | |
| | | chennOufmed Admin
Nombre de messages : 6208 Localisation : Meknes/MOrOccO Emploi : PrOf Loisirs : reading... Date d'inscription : 08/01/2007
| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Mer 2 Juin - 18:35 | |
| Sanjay, a rich guy, loved fast cars and he did have a few in his possession. He loved to speed and could not be bothered about breaking speed limits. Many a times he was caught by the cops and speed radars, fined, but still he never bothered. Until one day as he was driving at a very high speed as usual, he saw a cop following him. The cop overtook him finally and asked him to stop and checked his license. He then took out his pad and started Writing, and then handed over the sheet of paper to Sanjay. How much was this one going to cost?!!! Wait a minute. What was this???? Some kind of joke? Certainly not a ticket.
Sanjay began to read: "Dear Sanjay, Once upon a time I had a lovely daughter. She was six when killed by a car. You guessed it – a speeding driver's car. A fine and three months in jail, and the man was free. Free to hug his three daughters. I only had one, and I'm going to have to wait until Heaven, before I can ever hug her again. A thousand times I've tried to forgive that man. A thousand times I thought I had. Maybe I did, but I need to do it again. Even now. Pray for me.. And be careful, Sanjay, my son is all I have left." Sanjay turned around in time to see the cop's car pull away and head down the road. He watched until it disappeared. A full 15 minutes later, he too, pulled away and drove slowly home, praying for forgiveness and hugging a surprised wife and kids when he arrived. Life is precious. Handle it with care. Pass this on, you may save a life, we never know | |
| | | chennOufmed Admin
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| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Sam 19 Juin - 17:10 | |
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A woman repeated a bit of gossip about a neighbor. Within a few days the whole community knew the story.
The person it concerned was deeply hurt and offended.
Later the woman responsible for spreading the rumor learned that it was completely untrue.
She was very sorry and went to a wise old sage to find out what she could do to repair the damage.
" Go to the marketplace," he said, "and purchase a chicken, and have it killed. Then on your way home, pluck its feathers and drop them one by one along the road."
Although surprised by this advice, the woman did what she was told.
The next day the wise man said, "Now go and collect all those feathers you dropped yesterday and bring them back to me."
The woman followed the same road, but to her dismay, the wind had blown the feathers all away. After searching for hours, she returned with only three in her hand.
" You see," said the old sage, "it's easy to drop them, but it's impossible to get them back.
So it is with gossip. It doesn't take much to spread a rumor, but once you do, you can never completely undo the wrong."
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| | | chennOufmed Admin
Nombre de messages : 6208 Localisation : Meknes/MOrOccO Emploi : PrOf Loisirs : reading... Date d'inscription : 08/01/2007
| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Sam 28 Aoû - 13:38 | |
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| | | Anne poétesse
Nombre de messages : 1664 Localisation : France Emploi : aide médico-psychologique Date d'inscription : 21/02/2010
| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Sam 28 Aoû - 14:52 | |
| Les parents sont un bien très, très précieux. N'attendons pas qu'il soit trop tard,passons plus de temps avec eux et osons leur dire, un peu plus souvent, que nous les aimons .... Je te remercie infiniment cher Mohammed pour ces paroles pleines de sagesse ... | |
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| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Sam 28 Aoû - 22:26 | |
| je savais chere Anne que tu allais aimer..coeur d'or! | |
| | | chennOufmed Admin
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| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Lun 11 Oct - 9:45 | |
| C'est l'histoire de deux amis qui marchaient dans le désert. A un moment, ils se disputèrent et l'un des deux donna une gifle à l'autre. Ce dernier, endolori mais sans rien dire, écrivit dans le sable: « Aujourd'hui mon meilleur ami m'a donné une gifle». Ils continuèrent à marcher puis trouvèrent un oasis, dans lequel i...ls décidèrent de se baigner. Mais celui qui avait été giflé manqua de se noyer et son ami le sauva. Quand il se fut repris, il écrivit sur une pierre : « Aujourd'hui mon meilleur ami m'a sauvé la vie.» Celui qui avait donné la gifle et avait sauvé son ami lui demanda : « Quand je t'ai blessé tu as écrit sur le sable, et maintenant tu as écrit sur la pierre. Pourquoi ? ». L'autre ami répondit: « Quand quelqu'un nous blesse, nous devons l'écrire dans le sable, où les vents du pardon peuvent l'effacer. Mais quand quelqu'un fait quelque chose de bien pour nous, nous devons le graver dans la pierre, où aucun vent ne peut l'effacer». Apprends à écrire tes blessures dans le sable et à graver tes joies dans la pierre. | |
| | | abdennacer loukah Admin
Nombre de messages : 10309 Localisation : Meknès Emploi : prof Loisirs : lecture..musique ..voyage Date d'inscription : 08/01/2007
| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Lun 11 Oct - 17:33 | |
| https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ObyOuIgCbGU&feature=channel | |
| | | chennOufmed Admin
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| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Dim 9 Jan - 7:57 | |
| A while ago, my Dad met a stranger who was new to our small town. From the beginning, Dad was fascinated with this enchanting newcomer and soon invited him to live with our family. The stranger was quickly accepted and was around from then on.
As I grew up, I never questioned his place in my family. In my young mind, he had a special niche. My parents were complementary instructors: Mom taught me good from evil, and Dad taught me to obey. But the stranger…he was our storyteller. He would keep us spellbound for hours on end with adventures, mysteries and comedies.
If I wanted to know anything about politics, history or science, he always knew the answers about the past, understood the present and even seemed able to predict the future! He took my family to the first major league ball game. He made me laugh, and he made me cry. The stranger never stopped talking, but Dad didn’t seem to mind.
Sometimes, Mom would get up quietly while the rest of us were shushing each other to listen to what he had to say, and she would go to the kitchen for peace and quiet. (I wonder now if she ever prayed for the stranger to leave.)
Dad ruled our household with certain moral convictions, but the stranger never felt obligated to honor them. Profanity, for example, was not allowed in our home… Not from us, our friends or any visitors. Our longtime visitor, however, got away with four-letter words that burned my ears and made my dad squirm and my mother blush. My Dad didn’t permit the liberal use of alcohol. But the stranger encouraged us to try it on a regular basis. He made cigarettes look cool, cigars manly and pipes distinguished.
He talked freely (much too freely!) about sex. His comments were sometimes blatant, sometimes suggestive, and generally embarrassing.
I now know that my early concepts about relationships were influenced strongly by the stranger. Time after time, he opposed the values of my parents, yet he was seldom rebuked… And NEVER asked to leave.
More than fifty years have passed since the stranger moved in with our family. He has blended right in and is not nearly as fascinating as he was at first. Still, if you could walk into my parents’ den today, you would still find him sitting over in his corner, waiting for someone to listen to him talk and watch him draw his pictures. Categorically, he destroyed all the moral values, ethics, love, time for each other and other good qualities we had in our family…..whilst adding some unnoticeable quantity of positive stuff also, which any way we would have had even without him……
His name?…. .. . | |
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| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Dim 9 Jan - 11:11 | |
| But I like this stranger named Television..and I can't live without...hahahaha | |
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| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Dim 9 Jan - 11:32 | |
| great dear friend abdennacer...yes it is television. it has invaded our lives & changed a lot of our habits... thanks. | |
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| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Mar 17 Mai - 18:16 | |
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Out of the Box
Many hundreds of years ago in a small Italian town, a merchant had the misfortune of owing a large sum of money to the moneylender. The moneylender, who was old and ugly, fancied the merchant's beautiful daughter so he proposed a bargain. He said he would forgo the merchant' debt if he could marry the merchant's daughter. Both the merchant and his daughter were horrified by the proposal. The cunning money lender suggested that they let providence decide the matter.
The moneylender told them that he would put a black pebble and a white pebble into an empty bag. The girl would then have to pick one pebble from the bag. If she picked the black pebble, she would become the moneylender's wife and her father's debt would be forgiven. If she picked the white pebble she need not marry him and her father's debt would still be forgiven. But if she refused to pick a pebble, her father would be thrown into jail.
They were standing on a pebble strewn path in the merchant's garden. As they talked, the moneylender bent over to pick up two pebbles. As he picked them up, the sharp-eyed girl noticed that he had picked up two black pebbles and put them into the bag. He then asked the girl to pick her pebble from the bag.
Now, imagine you were standing in the merchant's garden. What would you have done if you were the girl? If you had to advise her, what would you have told her? Careful analysis would produce three possibilities:
1. The girl should refuse to take a pebble.
2. The girl should show that there were two black pebbles in the bag and expose the moneylender as a cheat.
3. The girl should pick a black pebble and sacrifice herself in order to save her father from his debt and imprisonment.
Take a moment to ponder over the story. The above story is used with the hope that it will make us appreciate the difference between lateral and logical thinking. The girl's dilemma cannot be solved with traditional logical thinking.
Think of the consequences if she chooses the logical answers.
What would you recommend the girl do?
The girl put her hand into the moneybag and drew out a pebble. Without looking at it, she fumbled and let it fall onto the pebble-strewn path where it immediately became lost among all the other pebbles.
"Oh, how clumsy of me," she said. "But never mind, if you look into the bag for the one that is left, you will be able to tell which pebble I picked."
Since the remaining pebble is black, it must be assumed that she had picked the white one. And since the moneylender dared not admit his dishonesty, the girl changed what seemed an impossible situation into an extremely advantageous one.
MORAL OF THE STORY: Most complex problems do have a solution, sometimes we have to think about them in a different way.
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| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Mer 18 Mai - 4:49 | |
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| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Mer 18 Mai - 16:03 | |
| yes dear friend Driss, it is very meaningful & moving.thanks for liking it. | |
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| Sujet: Re: meaningful stOries Ven 9 Sep - 16:51 | |
| Testing for gossip
In ancient Greece, Socrates was reputed to hold knowledge in high esteem. One day an acquaintance met the great philosopher and said, “Do you know what I just heard about your friend?”
“Hold on a minute,” Socrates replied. “Before telling me anything I’d like you to pass a little test. It’s called the Triple Filter Test.”
“Triple filter?”
“That’s right,” Socrates continued. “Before you talk to me about my friend, it might be a good idea to take a moment and filter what you’re going to say. That’s why I call it the triple filter test. The first filter is Truth. Have you made absolutely sure that what you are about to tell me is true?”
“No,” the man said, “Actually I just heard about it and ...”
“All right,” said Socrates. “So you don’t really know if it’s true or not. Now let’s try the second filter, the filter of Goodness. Is what you are about to tell me about my friend something good?”
“No, on the contrary…”
“So,” Socrates continued, “you want to tell me something bad about him, but you’re not certain it’s true. You may still pass the test though, because there’s one filter left: the filter of Usefulness. Is what you want to tell me about my friend going to be useful to me?”
“No, not really …”
“Well,” concluded Socrates, “if what you want to tell me is neither true nor good nor even useful, why tell it to me at all?”
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